This wound occurs when at different moments we feel that others do not approve of what we do and criticize us. You can even transfer this problem to your children, telling them that they are unmanaged, rude and insincere, as if to expose their problems to the other: this destroys the child’s self-confidence. In this way, the type of personality that is created with this frequency becomes a “person who depends on others”. You can take the attitude of “tyranny” and selfish as a defense mechanism, and you can humiliate others to create armor to protect yourself.
If you have experienced these experiences, you have to work on your own independence, at your freedom, understanding your needs and fears, as well as your priorities.